by, Green Jea
I make this note because it realized that I had a friend who was not only exciting but also complex and unique.
# 1
A year ago through a community in cyberspace I am acquainted with someone. Be his friend fill one page on the list in the community. He comes from a country that is actually quite familiar to me. But geographically quite complicated to understand.
He's not just my friends but the charger friend list on several occasions through our chat room quite often to discuss various things with some friends from various countries. At that time I did not capture something special from him. He was impressed mediocre just like the others.
Until the end, our friendship and a few other friends moved to a site association. Just as when in the community, I still feel ordinary. I actually fun with my friends from Indonesia who was also a member of our community.
One time I received a message through my inbox. Message from him. Its contents should be enough to make me see her page (things that I never did before). What he is saying through his message is apparently true. We have the same preferences. We liked the same music and movies. And I was surprised to discover that he could interpret the film that is considered mediocre by most people. He can have the exact same views with me about that movie. And he also quotes from the movie glorifies the same as me.
Eventually we exchanged messages through your inbox to discuss the film. And as time goes on, the more we discuss other things going on around us.
Back he told me that not only movies and music into our similarities but on some other things. It turned out we liked some of the same place in several countries in the world. We loved literature. And then we were involved in exciting philosophies in the world of literature.
But the equations that we have actually backfired. We're talking about something, we often do not involve emotions. Merely maintain the principle or simply selfish. Even some of our friends we often arbitrate when we were in the chat room. But somehow, we quickly realized, and after that our attitude as if nothing ever happened. As if we never locked horns when discussing something. I once tried to beat but I feel lost if I do it.
At first I thought he was just a friend in the virtual world because things happen in cyberspace alone. It turns out I was wrong. He asked for my hp no and after I give in just minutes, a short message I received from him. He was diligent enough to send short messages to me, either just say hello or tell me about his day. I do not mind and keep trying him with a friendly reply to every message in short. Perhaps out of habit or traits of our country (he said) full hospitality. It's just that my friendliness could turn into emotions if we return to something quite serious.
By early April, I went to a country in one of the continent in the world. There is some work to do I finish there. Before leaving I had a chance to tell him and said that his opinion about a book I will Include. And apparently I did not bother to discuss his opinion is there because he himself who asked that his opinions. For the first time I met him there. At a college in town which is one city that we love. When I asked whether he also got an invitation to attend the event. The answer is only a smile.
There are terms that say, do not know it is not love. My days there with him makes me quite know him personally. He is someone who is good, fun, smart, intelligent but stubborn. Not in cyberspace, nor through short messages and even there we were still arguing. And again we immediately noticed and could only laugh. At his age now, with his demeanor, his views, his way of thinking, I think is too high and cumbersome.
He never asked me to enter his name in the list my brother and sister (sibling) in our association website. Perhaps such things on a social site is not important. And I knew, we were pretty close but I felt no emotional closeness. My ego was always playing. Pain did not want to beat is always there. That's why I refused his request.
Many of my girlfriends who want to be friends with him or asked me introduce. Yes, I must admit he has a special attraction. Where women are not going to yield a romance the opposite sex through the game the words in a poem. Perhaps only those who know who he is considered a romance that's not including me.
I never forbade anyone to be his friend because it was not me who has the right to decide, but he himself. But until now, the list of his friend list and none of her friends came from the same country with me. Even our fellow community did not exist. He was quite selective in choosing friends, to impress arrogant. I myself do not know why he wants to be friends with me. Whatever the reason, I still appreciate it as a form of respect from him.
To me he was a friend who was funny when we both had no idea anything. When we talk about one of our friends. When he appeared with creativity and foolishness.
He was a unique time stubborn nature can suddenly turn into a little understanding and willing to budge. When he became a teen-age with a naughty naughty.
He was a complicated time his views and his way of thinking that often dominates the others.
That's him.
